You would have to go way back to Episode #88 to hear the first time Melody Schoenfeld was with me on the show. On that episode we spoke about her book “Pleasure Not Meating You” which is available for purchase on Amazon. She has recently been awarded the 2019 NSCA Personal Trainer Of The Year Award and those of us who know her are far from surprised. In this episode, Melody and I talk about the things that make her unique from a training perspective. She discusses her interests in strongman training and powerlifting as well as how she approaches her training style for her clients. We also talk about her passion for music and how she prioritizes her passions for more effective time management. To learn more about Melody, check out http://www.facebook.com/melody.schoenfeld and http://www.instagram.com/5ftoffury1 To learn more about your host, check out http://www.jasonleenaarts.com and http://www.revfittherapy.com You can also like our Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/revolutionaryou Download, subscribe, share with your friends and please take a moment to leave us an iTunes review.

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Shockingly and somewhat blindingly, Sebastian will be turning two this weekend (August 3.) Every time I say that to a client, they give me the same look:

“Two? How did it all go so fast?”

And it really has been a blur.

But at two years of age, Sebastian is full of laughter, smiles, tantrums, and trouble.

The last two bear the most mention.

My running joke with Marissa is: If he’s throwing some unholy tantrum, that’s YOUR child. But if he’s not listening and he’s getting into trouble, that’s MY child.

Most recently, Sebastian was having an absolute meltdown hanging on the arm of the freezer begging for a popsicle before dinner. Marissa looked at him, then she looked at me. I looked at him, then I looked at her: “That’s YOUR child.”

By the same token, she and I were sitting on the couch watching him play in the living room. He was getting into something he shouldn’t have been and Marissa kept saying to him: “Sebastian, no. Sebastian, no, no!” Of course, he wasn’t listening (MY child.) Marissa leaned over to me and whispered: “Our child is baaaad.” To which I replied: “Yes, he sure is.”

His first swear word? Yeah, that was my fault. He repeated something I said a few months ago so I get the parenting fail for that one.

It’s never a dull moment with the Leenaarts family. Certainly not with a two year old Biscuit running around the house like a heathen.

And as far as interests go, Sebastian has been fascinated with all sorts of things, namely: vacuum cleaners, toilet bowls, electrical outlets, trash cans, hand sanitizer, food processors, blenders, leaf blowers, you know…typical two-year old boy stuff, right?

He loves his TV shows, his books, his toys, he loves our boxer Dempsey, he absolutely adores his mother, his Nana (he says Nina), his Booma (Marissa’s grandmother) and his Mula (he says Muhna.)

Like his mother, he loves being outdoors and she has taken every opportunity to get him to parks and every place where he can run his heart out (or run to exhaustion so he’ll take a nap!)

But the greatest part, in my opinion, is how much he loves his big brother.

As most of my readers know, Jackson is from my first marriage and he spends most of his time with his mother who has undoubtedly given the same undying love and affection to him as Marissa has Sebastian.

But when Jackson is with us, Sebastian only ever wants to be by his side. Jackson likes to retreat to my office where he can get on the computer and watch the shows he likes. Sebastian, ever the loving and attentive little brother, wants desperately for Jackson to play with him. He’ll stand at the bottom of the staircase and plead “Jackson, come down here!”

And of course, the bittersweet side of this is that due to Jackson’s challenges with autism and Sebastian’s lack of understanding at his age, we haven’t been able to help him understand that Jackson may not always want to play the way Sebastian wants to play.

Nevertheless, when the boys are together, it’s one of my proudest parenting moments to witness. Both boys (at least now) are happy, loving, and, when prompted, can have fun together.

And there are some significant differences parenting a neuro-typical child versus a child with special needs. Where Jackson was (and is) at more of a disadvantage to say what’s on his mind, Sebastian is definitely more vocal, more opinionated and perhaps a bit more energetic than Jax was at the same age.

Which, in many ways, makes it feel like I’m having to learn how to parent from scratch. The boys are vastly different and there are so many things that I didn’t experience with Jackson at the same age.

Sebastian, like his brother, can a light up a room with his smile. He has an infectious laugh and he loves being around other kids. I think he just loves interacting with others (most of the time.)

To my baby boy, Mama and “Dada” love you. We wish you the happiest of birthdays. Thank you for two years of love, laughter, some terrible nights of sleep and for giving your mother and I plenty of reason to not let you out of our sight.

 

 

 

 

 

This week, I welcome Corey Robb of Macros Inc. to the show. In this episode we discuss Corey’s path into the fitness industry and his own personal challenges with being overweight, staying motivated with his own fitness goals and how he has prioritized his life based on the ebb and flow of both family and work. There is so much that I think listeners will relate to with Corey’s own story and it showcases why he is such a successful coach to his clients.

To learn more about Corey’s work, visit www.facebook.com/groups/macrosincgroup and www.macrosinc.net

You can also find Corey on Instagram at www.instagram.com/macromeyers_aka_coreymacrosinc

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My writing coach, Stephanie Lee, was the first person to lay the line on me: “kill your darlings.” She was referencing my inability (at the time) to remove passages and lines from a piece of my work that I had become somewhat married to.

Coming from someone who has written poems, songs, articles and a book since I was in grade school, it was always easy for me to be somewhat possessive of my work. Years ago, when I was pitching some of my songs to an industry executive, he told me “The best songs are re-written.”

I didn’t believe him. At the time, whatever amount of ego I had could not fathom the idea of changing something once I committed it to paper. That’s not to say a song wouldn’t go through edits during the actual writing but once every chorus, verse and bridge was down, little else changed after that.

Some attribute the term “kill your darlings” to William Faulkner. Like a lot of mis-used and oft quoted lines, sometimes the original source can be hard to find. Through some of my own digging, I uncovered this from Arthur Quiller-Couch (circa 1914):

“If you here require a practical rule of me, I will present you with this: ‘Whenever you feel an impulse to perpetrate a piece of exceptionally fine writing, obey it—whole-heartedly—and delete it before sending your manuscript to press. Murder your darlings.”

And it’s a phrase that I think many writers learn to live with.

Even famed author, Stephen King, weighed in on the discussion with his quote: “Kill your darlings, kill your darlings, even when it break your egocentric little scribbler’s heart, kill your darlings.”

Coincidentally, murdering your darlings can be a fantastic tool for weight loss and I have to encourage you to do the same.

Over the years, it’s been easy to lose count of the things my clients have clung so tightly to. Perceptions, beliefs and myths (in many ways) that I believe have distracted them from progress.

Things you may have heard like:

“Fruit makes you fat.”

“Carbs are addictive.”

“I’ll never be as lean/strong/capable as I was in high school.”

“Eating past 7pm makes the body store more fat.”

“Training fasted is the best way to burn fat.”

“Keto/paleo/vegan is the optimal way to eat.”

“Inflammation is keeping me from weight loss.”

“I can’t lose weight since I hit menopause.”

There is little else more discouraging, more damning and more destructive than the person who continues to cling to misconceptions about their health and refuses to murder their darlings keeping a better outcome from happening.

Nearly every person who has walked through my doors has held tightly onto some notion that proved to be incorrect.

Please don’t misunderstand that statement.

Not everyone who is wrong with these beliefs comes to terms with them.

I’m very vocal about the fact that sensationalist journalism and social media play into these things. I believe people like Dr. Oz are no better. We (as people) are being force-fed ideas about health that are not universal, that are not one-size-fits-all and we’re being told it’s the best way.

I would ask you to divorce some of these notions and try something different.

Try an approach that’s simpler, less dogmatic, more flexible with your lifestyle and probably not what your neighbor is doing (who likely got their information from Dr. Oz.)

You will likely find, as many of my clients have, that what journalism might sell you on can have a shred of truth to it but it’s probably not the whole truth you’re looking for.

If weight loss has been eluding you, there is something you’re holding onto. There is a darling that needs to be removed, an obstacle that has been in your way for all this time.

We help our clients find those things.

“We Make Great People Greater”

(Below is a picture of me with my son, Jackson. I can write and re-write many parts of my life but this “darling”, he’s staying.) 😉

 

 

 

 

 

This week, I welcome back for the fourth time, Lyle McDonald. To this day he holds the claim for the most downloaded episode of the show (#76) and two episodes with his lifter, Sumi Singh (#99 & #149.) In this episode, we compile his decades of work with nutrition and nutrition research to discuss the most important strategies for an individual’s fat loss success. It’s a long one and it is jammed with a ton of great insight. To learn more about Lyle’s work and to purchase his books, visit http://www.bodyrecomposition.com To learn more about your host, check out http://www.jasonleenaarts.com and http://www.revfittherapy.com You can also like our Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/revolutionaryou Download, subscribe, share with your friends and please take a moment to leave us an iTunes review.

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When I sit down with a potential weight loss client, there is a lot of discussion about health history, current life/life stressors, goals, and nutrition.

When we talk about nutrition it’s with the understanding that every individual has their maintenance intake. In other words, eat “this much” and your body will essentially not change in weight.

So, we create a deficit.

For most of my clients, it’s somewhere between 15-20% of their maintenance intake with a conservative outline for additional cardio expenditure and the very marginal expenditure created from strength training.

Sometimes when a client can get acclimated to their deficit amount they get..ambitious.

In other words, if eating “X” amount of calories can get me to my goal, maybe I can just eat significantly less and get there faster!

And in theory, this is exactly how it works.

Except when it doesn’t.

One of the problems with aggressive diets is you can lose a disproportionate amount of muscle mass as well as fat mass. And I will say to you, the same way I say to a potential client: NEVER in the history of this business have I ever had someone tell me: “What I really want to do is lose muscle.”

It’s always fat loss that these clients want.

Now, do you have to keep every single pound of muscle mass that you started with?

Not necessarily.

In fact, many clients of mine might invariably lose 5% of their starting muscle mass. I give them the tools to combat that loss but for some people they just don’t want to micromanage every single aspect of their intake.

The biggest issue with that disproportionate amount of loss between muscle and fat is that not only does a smaller body require fewer calories but the less muscle you have the fewer calories you burn at rest.

Let’s face it, you probably don’t have the luxury of training for hours on end so your body does need to rest. Wouldn’t you want to stack the deck in your favor?

So, I tend to find it puzzling when so many people are willing to dial down their calories below a professionally suggested deficit.

Working the numbers you may get to your goal faster but your sleep quality will suffer, your workouts will suffer, your recovery will suffer and your mood will suffer.

These aren’t really concerns of IF they happen, rather WHEN will they happen?

I have clients who have come in almost elated with the fact that they cut their calories down drastically from where I would have wanted them.

They want that gold star.

They want that affirmation of: I did good, right? Look how little I ate! It’s going to be a great weigh-in today!

But that’s not really the point.

Yes, your goal might be to lose weight and yes, I have a vested interest in getting you there.

But I want you there at your healthiest, your strongest, your most confident.

Not beaten, sunken, withered and tired crawling across the finish line.

While I am immensely happy when my clients see weight loss success, there is a method to the madness, one that has been tried over years and years of client interaction.

It’s not a cookie cutter method. Everyone has slight deviations of how to get there.

And I don’t reward starvation.

I want my clients to eat as much as they can of the foods they enjoy and can control to get to their goals.

I don’t encourage white-knuckling and I don’t encourage trends even though I know that both can and will occur.

What I do reward is the person who continues to polish their skills. The person who will tinker with little variables: more sleep, fewer treats, less alcohol, appropriate portion sizes, more candid food tracking, etc.

I’ll give a gold star for progress no matter how seemingly minuscule.

But a gold star for starving yourself? That I can’t give.

(Below is Pete. Down 34 lbs pounds using that terribly unglamourous method of weight loss: consistent (not flawless) caloric deficit, steady state cardio and strength training. In this picture he’s a handful of pounds away from what he weighed when he got married  over 30 years ago. Not bad for a fella who recently retired.)

“We Make Great People Greater.”

 

 

 

 

On the heels of my most recent episode with Dr. Yoni Freedhoff, I connected with Dr. Jose Greenspon, a Missouri-based pediatric surgeon who also follows Dr. Yoni’s work. He has been collaborating on a program to help combat obesity in teens by creating a platform that encourages healthier eating, more activity and a positive support environment for adolescents (and their family members) to benefit from. Tune in to this week’s bonus episode to hear about the great work that Dr. Greenspon and his team have been doing. To learn more about this program, please visit http://www.teen-lift.com To learn more about your host, check out http://www.jasonleenaarts.com and http://www.revfittherapy.com You can also like our Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/revolutionaryou Download, subscribe, share with your friends and please take a moment to leave us an iTunes review.

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It was time to put the spotlight back on one of our RevFit rockstars and this week I get to introduce you to Pam Holtz. Pam has not only seen great weight loss results but has seen a complete transformation in self-confidence and self-image. Tune in to see how she manages this as well as balancing a successful marriage, parenthood and a job that keeps her plate full. To learn more about your host, check out www.jasonleenaarts.com and www.revfittherapy.com You can also like our Facebook page at www.facebook.com/revolutionaryou Download, subscribe, share with your friends and please take a moment to leave us an iTunes review.

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I’ve had some time to reflect on my recent conversation with fellow trainer/coach Leigh Peele which was released as the 200th episode of the podcast.

It can be so easy to get caught up in the day-to-day of this business that while I catch certain successes, I tend to miss others. Sometimes I can sense a point of failure coming before it happens and sometimes it catches me by surprise. As the adage might go: “the joys of owning a business.”

It can be that outsider’s perspective too, that shines a light on things that I may have previously missed or discounted. When someone tells you you’re successful, maybe you just don’t really feel like it because all you see are the things that are going wrong.

By and large, what we’re doing at RevFit is a resounding success. We beat the industry norm, we beat the small business norm, we beat my expectations, that’s for sure.

And it stands to reason, human nature being what it is, that no matter how good it gets I’m always failing at something.

Maybe I put too much on my schedule where I shouldn’t, or maybe my wife, Marissa, asks me to do something for her and I forget, or I lost a client because they didn’t get the experience they had hoped for with us.

What I experience with this business is not unlike what my clients go through with their own self improvement.

Think of it like this: if I only used my gross revenue as an indication of success, how truly successful am I?

Within the scope of monetary success, I have to question: How happy are my clients? Shouldn’t that be an indicator of success? It stands to reason that I could make a lot of money just by bringing in more people to train but what are the long-term results and overall satisfaction levels of those clients?

Shouldn’t that satisfaction be what trumps everything else?

If a client only uses the scale as the indicator of success, what details are they missing?

And this is what I wanted to write you about.

It’s easy(ish) to diet for a goal.

It’s also easy to remove whole food groups, demonize certain macronutrients and double-down to force ourselves in a deficit just to get closer to that goal.

But what problem are you actually solving? Is this a “weight loss” problem or is this a “I want to be healthier” problem? They are not always synonymous.

As a business owner, I could be purely motivated by gross revenue (think “scale weight”.) Or, I could be motivated by customer experience, customer retention, and customer satisfaction, allowing those factors to determine our gross revenue (not the other way around.)

Those factors would lead me to ask you if you’re focusing on quality sleep, quality movement and quality food intake. You know: the things that undoubtedly get you to your goal but we tend to forget about because the allure of a diet trend makes us lose focus.

Much like I’ve admitted with my misgivings as a business owner, I want you to consider similar questions for yourself.

If you’re not seeing results as you want, I’d like you to look at other variables like how many hours you sleep, how many servings of fruits/vegetables you eat in a day, how much water you’re drinking, how consistent you are with caloric intake or your exercise plan, how happy you feel on a given day and how you might be monitoring the relative chaos in your life.

You see, all of those things above can affect your scale weight but if all you ever look at is the scale, how do you know the bigger picture of your success?

And, as I’ve done professionally, it’s easy to discount our success when I tend to nit-pick what we’re not doing right (or what I feel can be improved upon.)

Your circumstances are not unlike this business. The successes ebb and flow, the failures tend to be magnified as we find ways to figuratively self-flagellate.

And it might be helpful to treat your body somewhat like a business. Keep it profitable and move it forward. “Trim the fat”, if you will, to keep expenses minimal but necessary. Get outside opinion to see and hear things you may not have your eyes open to (this is where coaching tends to be beneficial.)

Most of all, realize that while you’re on this spectrum, there will be heavy doses of success and failure. All of which is normal, all of which is needed, all of it is valuable feedback.

There is no one success that catapults you to your goals. It is normally a series of minor successes that compound over time. Conversely, there is no one failure that completely erases your progress thus far (although having a tendency to catastrophize those failures can set off an unfortunate chain of less than ideal behaviors.)

It’s my kind encouragement to you to celebrate your successes and find ways to replicate them as frequently as possible; to fail consciously and to course-correct as swiftly as possible in efforts to minimize damage (emotionally and in defense of your goals.) Both sides of this coin have to be embraced.

Because to get to your goal, you’re going to experience a lot of success that may not always be noticeable and you’re going to experience a lot of failure that has to be accepted as part of the plan.

There is really no other way.

“We Make Great People Greater.”

(Below is our very own, Starr, taking over Top 5 in deadlift last week with 265×1.)

 

 

 

 

Inspired by a suggestion from one of our listeners, I asked Leigh Peele to join me for this milestone episode. For the first time officially in the history of this show, I get the tables turned on me to be interviewed. It’s lengthier than we normally go and Leigh and I cover a great deal of topics together: my background into the industry, my own personal history of mental health and wellness, the origins and philosophies of both Revolution Fitness and Therapy and this podcast and a lot more. I hope you enjoy this very different approach to our episodes and I want to again thank Leigh Peele for making this episode happen. To learn more about Leigh’s work, please visit http://www.leighpeele.com To learn more about your host, check out http://www.jasonleenaarts.com and http://www.revfittherapy.com You can also like our Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/revolutionaryou Download, subscribe, share with your friends and please take a moment to leave us an iTunes review.  Also, special thanks to Wes McCraw of http://www.creeksideaudio.us for our new intro.

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